You're romanticizing the fact that you have 1) no game, 2) no balls, and 3) no chance with this girl by saying "I just want her to be happy." That's bullshit and you know it. What you really want is for this chick to ditch her guy (who, in your mind, isn't as good to her as you would be) and fall for you, her knight in shining armor. You are so afraid of rejection that you've fallen for a girl who already has a boyfriend so you can pretend that if she was single, you'd have the 'nads to ask her out, but since she's taken you'll just wander around sniffing her wake like a little puppy. And now you're going to send her flowers anonymously "just to make her happy" because the guy whose cum she guzzles every night is not as sweet and sensitive a man as you are. That is the lamest, most pussy-ass thing I have read on the Shack this entire week. What the hell is wrong with you?